Not knowing is supposed to be a bad thing. With storytelling, not knowing can be the best thing that ever happened to you.
Because if you surrender to the "I don't know," then anything can happen.
Suddenly, you're in a magical world of endless possibilities.
You are a kid in a playground. A park. A candy shop. A toy store. You're in a place where you can have anything you want, be anything you want, go anywhere you want, travel to any time you want. It's one big game of pretend. No limitations.
HOW DO YOU DO IT?
Rule number one: Don't freak out.
It'll just waste your time and make you feel worse.
Rule number two: Step away from the vehicle.
Stop trying to turn over that engine in your head. It's flooded with too much analytical, know-it-all thinking.
Rule number three: Decide that you are in the wonderful land of "I don't know," where magical answers appear without any effort.
If you're saying to yourself, "yeah, right," with a big dose of sarcasm, tell that naysayer voice inside to take a hike. Tell yourself that it costs you nothing to believe in the magic of "I don't know." Go ahead, just give it a try. Allow for the possibility. Suspend disbelief. You don't have to tell anyone. And what do you have to lose?